Hot Buddha Sweats; Cold Buddha Shivers: Enjoying the Conditions of Now

January 23, 2011

It’s cold outside. Here in Northern Vermont the temperatures dipped well below 0 degrees Fahrenheit last night and will again tonight. It’s probably very cold where you are right now too. This cold makes news. And people generate a lot of reactivity to it — generate a lot of stories, mostly of a plaintiff nature.

Now, extreme cold like this can be dangerous, so we need to be mindful of this. If you go to sleep in a snowbank, you’ll wake up frozen and dead. However, with proper precautions, we can survive the extreme cold as humans have been doing for millennia. A wise sage once said there is no such thing as being cold, just unprepared. Patagonia, North Face, and many other companies exist to make sure we are prepared for whatever natures gives us.

Cold is not a thing. In fact there is not such thing as cold; it’s just the relative absence of heat. Yet we react to cold as if it is a thing, as if it is a person — and an adversary at that. We resist it, fight it, and wish it was otherwise.

I remember one very cold evening last winter. I was walking to my car complaining under my breath how cold it was. I was fighting it, resisting it. When I got into my car I was shivering and noticed how I was tensing the muscles in my upper body. When I reminded myself that the hot Buddha sweats and the cold Buddha shivers, I relaxed my muscles and felt the sensations of the cold. I felt tingling energy and a relaxed space opening up in my experience. The cold was no longer unpleasant because I wasn’t fighting it.

We can think of a four-story building. On the ground floor is what is happening now. When it’s cold there’s not a lot of molecules moving and there are the sensations of cold, including perhaps shivering — our bodies attempt to restore warmth.

On the second floor is the brain’s attempt to figure out what’s going on. A label “cold” is applied to the experience.

The brain also wants to figure out the emotional tone of this experience, so on the third floor, we get an evaluation of the experience as pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. Cold is naturally unpleasant unless and until it is deconstructed (stay tuned!).

On the fourth floor we have conscious thoughts, such as “oh it’s cold, I better put on my hat” and “I can’t believe how cold it is, !%&*&, I hate winter.” The first thought is practical; the second a product of the storytelling mind and one that makes the experience distressing.

So, our task is to deconstruct the experience by coming down to the ground floor and experience the sensations of the cold without the label “cold” and without the drama generated on the fourth floor. When we can do this, the distress dissipates. We can experience the exhilaration of the cold and feel our aliveness vibrating.

When we can do this we move into acceptance of reality as it is. This is the heart of mindfulness. When we accept what is happening — shivering cold in this case — we relieve ourselves from misery, anguish, and even suffering.

I’m fortunate to have the constitution of a polar bear and yet I still need to deconstruct the cold as above at times. Of course this strategy works for ANY potentially distressing experience, not just cold.

When I finish writing this column, I’m off to slide down a mountain at high speed on a snowboard in the zero degree landscape (and much colder with the wind chill). I’m looking forward to the refreshing reminder of being alive!

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6 Responses to Hot Buddha Sweats; Cold Buddha Shivers: Enjoying the Conditions of Now

  1. Leslie Hutchison on January 23, 2011 at 10:56 pm

    Cold can be a lot of fun, just as you said, if you have extreme weather clothing from expensive outfits such as Patgonia or Northface. Cold is something to worry about if you cant afford winter wear. Your outlook doesn’t strike me as very Zen.

    • Salcia on January 24, 2011 at 10:03 am

      “The cold was no longer unpleasant because I wasn’t fighting it.” – isn’t that one of the signs you’re about to freeze to death?

      A very good point re. expensive winter clothing. Nor is the exhilarating experience of snowboarding available to everybody, since that too costs money. I’m a big believer in mindfulness, but this is one of the things I struggle with – when acceptance of conditions as you find them either encourages complacency or places one in danger.

      Arnie, if you were to blog on that particular problem, I’d be extremely interested in hearing – well, reading – your thoughts.

      • Arnie Kozak on January 24, 2011 at 10:38 am

        Thanks for your comment Salcia. Indeed, we must know the difference between discomfort and danger. What was going on the night in my car was just uncomfortable — shivering. That certainly might be a sign of hyopthermia if it were to continue, but in that context is was not and need not be resisted. Acceptance is often confused with complacency and this would be a mistake. Acceptance is seeing reality clearly. If what you see is that you are going into hypothermia, acceptance would not dictate just observing those sensations. Acceptance would say, this is dangerous and I need to take care of myself in whatever way possible. MIndfulness helps us to more skillfully negotiate the vast territory in between the extremes — where life is seen as uncomfortable, inconvenient, or ambiguous. This is where our minds generate a lot of complaints and where acceptance can quiet those complaints.

    • Arnie Kozak on January 24, 2011 at 10:33 am

      Dear Leslie. Thanks for your comment. Indeed, the thrust of my column was directed to a privileged readership. But the expensive gear was not the point here; the point was preparation. We don’t necessarily need to spend a lot of money to be prepared for the cold, it’s just facilitated by modern technology. Cold can be very dangerous for the disenfranchised and survival rather than higher considerations are more pressing for these people. Think about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. One can’t contemplate self-actualization when survival is at risk. The point of the column is acceptance. Can we accept things that are uncomfortable and inconvenient? Arnie.

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  3. theresa on February 7, 2011 at 7:21 am

    You go Arnie! Your blogs are a gift, and I thank you for them. Acceptance for me is the key to a happy and healty life, and I’m glad you reminded me! Be well and stay warm! Lol lol

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