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LIFE GOES ON: Letter To A Pedophile

LETTER TO A PEDOPHILE Whenever I work with a victim of sexual abuse or molestation, I encourage them to write a letter to their abuser. Often their anger, guilt, shame, and sadness are overwhelming. They…



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Share Buybacks Are Rarely Good For Investors

Large U.S. companies with plenty of cash on hand have four choices: sit on the money, buy back stock, give higher dividends or buy another company. Of these choices only raising the dividend tends to…




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LIFE GOES ON : On Aging

On Aging Everyday, at least one of my patients mentions aging.  In their 20’s, they feel they have it all and feel sorry for people in their 30’s. In their 30’s, they talk about their…


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LIFE GOES ON: All About ME

DEAR DOCTOR KATHLEEN, I have suffered from an anxiety disorder since I was a teenager. Thankfully, I’m on the right medication and have a wonderful therapist. I haven’t had a panic attack in over a…


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LIFE GOES ON: A NEW WAY OF BEING

A NEW WAY OF BEING   I can think of no better way to start 2012 than to pass on these anonymous words of wisdom. For those of you who may have missed this on…



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LIFE GOES ON: Weekends & Wednesdays

WEEKENDS & WEDNESDAY NIGHTS Dear Doctor Kathleen, I am a divorced father of 2 little girls, ages 5 and 7. Fortunately, my ex-wife and I have an excellent relationship and work well co-parenting. The problem…


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LIFE GOES ON: What Will You Remember?

WHAT WILL YOU REMEMBER?  After the presents are unwrapped, the dinners are eaten, and the songs are sung, what will you remember about this holiday season? Was all the stress and worry necessary? “What should…



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LIFE GOES ON: “In Praise Of Idleness”

“IN PRAISE OF IDLENESS”  DEAR DOCTOR KATHLEEN, I have worked everyday of my life since I was 12.I was raised with a strong work ethic by hard-working parents. My brothers and I had jobs to…





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LIFE GOES ON: Freedom From Limitations!

Rosa came to this country from Mexico when she was two months old. She has never returned, and yet she feels trapped in the Old World values of traditional Hispanic religious beliefs. Her parents prayed…



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LIFE GOES ON: Perfectly Unhappy

PERFECTLY UNHAPPY DEAR DOCTOR KATHLEEN, I am happily married (most of the time) to a very disorganized man. When he undertakes a project, he does it half-heartedly and it takes him forever. For example, he…